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Post by lynneandjohn on 5th May 2017, 00:43

(originally posted on 20 Feb 2008)

i have been told that i am blocking my husbands attempts to reach me as a result of my grief. how do you actually try to move this block when it is impossible to move grief. or do i have to be patient. any thoughts on this. i do sense him at times but i am told he is around me alot and puts his arms around me but i do not feel this.
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Re: patience

Post by Candlelight on 5th May 2017, 00:44

Hi Lynne,
Try to be accepting in the knowledge that you can sometimes sense that John is around you, and acknowledge the little signs that he gives you to let you know that. I'm sure he's aware of how hard it is for you not being able to feel the physical comfort of his arms around you, but he sends these other little signs to make up for that in a way. When you acknowledge (to him in your mind) that you recognise these signs as being from him, that's as good to him as you putting your arms around him and giving him a hug. In a way you are both reassuring each other. I'm sure you will find in time that it's the times that you're at your most peaceful and contented, that's the time you will feel his presence more. When you're sad (and down) your energy is also down, and this serves only to block. He wants only for you to feel happy again Lynne. Keep your memories and just take each day as it comes, knowing that you haven't lost each other for ever. John's still very much a part of you, and you of him. You always will be.

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Re: patience

Post by Stardust on 5th May 2017, 00:45

OOOH ... lynneandjohn - I nearly jumped up with joy and excitement for you when I saw your new avatar. You must have been so chuffed to find it. It's gorgeous.

Re the hugs from John, it must be really difficult once you're on the other side to manifest physically back here. I've always read and heard that is so, which explains why they often use something that is light in weight, like a feather, (a spider ...). So even if you're getting hugs all day long it would be hard to actually physically feel it. Doesn't mean it's not happening. You can't see or touch, for instance, radio/TV waves or microwaves that work the oven, and yet they're there !
Human levels of perception are low when you think about it. Everything needs exercise so we need to work at it. 😁



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Re: patience

Post by lynneandjohn on 5th May 2017, 00:52

thanks canlelight and sammy. i am so very lucky to have the vast array of signs i have had. i do sense john strongly at times and have this last 2 days particularly. after i posted this i went downstairs and felt his presence strongly and heared my name said in my head. it was so sudden and came from no-where. i somehow new he was sat in his fave spot on the sofa. cuddled him and had a chat. Smile Smile.
i am so vey lucky to sense him and have these signs. the reason this bothered me was that in my reading i was told that john is aware you hug him (I DO WITH MY ARMS EXTENDED AND IMAGINE HE'S THERE), and that john hugs me too but can;t understand why you don't feel him. this got me a bit upset. i know he is learning too though. to know though he does recieve my hugs and is there is so wonderful.
thanks for your replys, i must realise it must takes a huge amount of energy to feel them, as you say and will continue to enjoy and and be eternally grateful for the signs i have. they are so precious.luv lynne
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Re: patience

Post by lynneandjohn on 5th May 2017, 00:53

p.s thanks sammi for commenting on my avatar. brill is'nt it . Smile Smile Smile
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Re: patience

Post by lynneandjohn on 5th May 2017, 00:53

me again.please forgive me stardust. get so befudled with names. will try to remember your stardust. luv lynne
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Re: patience

Post by Stardust on 5th May 2017, 00:54

Didn't you say he could reach you more easily when you're asleep ?



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Re: patience

Post by lynneandjohn on 5th May 2017, 00:57

yes he does, had 4 visits from him, 2 of them very strong. last one was about 4 months back and not sure if it's my grief blocking another or maybe some spiritual law that does'nt allow him. .
here of people having many and have also heard that they may not be allowed. he has visited my son a few times now though, the last about 2 weeks ago so maybe it's me. in time i know he will again. thanks stardust luv lynne

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Re: patience

Post by Voldsgaard on 5th May 2017, 00:58

At my circle I have been told that I want to much and I try too much and that it will eventually hold me back.

At my last circle I was tired from a 2 days business trip that I came home from only a few hours before the circle - so I didn't expect a thing... other than I might fall a sleep during meditation... And it turned out to be my best circle yet...

Maybe its the same with you, Lynne? Maybe You need to relax a bit more and not expect too much.

You know what I mean?



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Re: patience

Post by lynneandjohn on 5th May 2017, 01:00

thanks volsdy, you are right of course. feel on auto-pilot most of the time which is not going to help. i guess it's a catch 22. when you are grieving it is going to hinder contact which is just what you need. patience is what i need to be too and i will try to be more relaxed. thanks voldsy. lynne

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Re: patience

Post by Voldsgaard on 5th May 2017, 01:01

no problem, lynne...



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Re: patience

Post by Stardust on 5th May 2017, 01:03

Found a little friend for your 3, lynneandjohn. Say hello !   😁   Here he is :

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Re: patience

Post by lynneandjohn on 5th May 2017, 01:06

thanks stardust.love him already. really made me smile so a big thankyou. luv lynne

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